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A Setting can be Evocative ~ Memories unfolded by an unexpected visit

The Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Albans

The Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Albans

There are three places in the world I’ve felt truly at home, A fledgling love for Kinghorn, where we live now and couldn’t imagine living anywhere else; Alderney, which stole my heart from an early age and inspired me to begin to write novels; and St Albans, where I grew up. 

On our visit to St Albans we took the opportunity to visit Verulamium, a park which hold many memories for me. Leaving the car beside St Michael’s Church, where I learnt to ring church bells at 11 yrs with my sister, we had a bite to eat in the Inn on the Park then walked on to the lake, where I strolled with my parents almost once a week for thirteen years.

Next we passed the childrens’ paddling pool, covered for the season. I remember several of us as teenagers paddling in there after dark and then walking bare foot to the Fighting Cocks, an ancient public house on the far side of the lake. It was busy that night so we ordered our drinks – Coca Cola I believe (we were under-age for 

The Fighting Cocks

The Fighting Cocks

alcohol!) – and then sat on the floor, stretching our feet out to dry. Within a few minutes someone among the posh clientele must have complained because the manager came and asked us to leave, which was the one and only occasion I was thrown out of a public house. I still smile as I pass it by!

Then hubby and I walked up to St Alban’s Cathedral, a mismatch of architecture through the ages which all adds to quite a magnificent building. I was confirmed there and later went out with a boy who used to go the the school next to the Abbey. He was my first ever boyfriend and fellow campanologist. The entrance to the sixth form, I recall, was under the Abbey Gateway. Not that I ever went inside. Of course not.

Up in the town the clocktower reminds me of a bakers shop nearby, which sold mini loaves about the size of a medium tomato, and Smiths the bookshop which I used to visit frequently, a place with low wooden beams and nooks and corners. The town does not appear to have changed much and certainly, walking back down to St Michael’s Street to the museum, you’d think time had stood still. The Six Bells is still there, (There are eight bells up the tower but the name hasn’t changed) where I was bought my first alcoholic drink, a cider I believe, enjoyed after practice night – bell-ringing that is. I notice that the tiny school where my mother taught for years is also still used for purpose, where she used to enjoy taking the children out for nature walks around the lake. Those were simple days.

Verulamium Museum

Verulamium Museum

The old museum building is still opposite, but in addition is a building behind with a new Roman-like facade of a temple. This marks the rich Roman heritage, the significance of which greatly coloured my history lessons at school, bringing that period to life. Even the story frequently told of Alban himself, and the sacrifice he made for his faith, has lived with me into my adult life.

I was privileged to grow up in such a city and was sad when we moved at the age of eighteen years. In fact, it was at the time I went to Norwich to teacher training college and in some ways I never went ‘home’ again. This must have shaped my psyche because deep down there is still a longing to truly belong, but maybe, just maybe we’re getting there at last with our lives up here in Fife. Who’d have thought it?

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(I discovered this post in ‘DRAFTS’ and thought it was such a shame not to share it. I believe that our writing life is shaped by how we perceive ourselves in the past, present and future ~ see

‘My Place to Write ~ A Place to call Home’ )

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Serendipity

Definition
on Marriam Webster.com:

The faculty or phenomenon of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for:

Serendipity is the second of my best loved words. (see post of Agapé) Serendipity is, of course better known than ‘agapé’ although it is none the less pleasing when I think of it.

A dear elderly friend of mine who passed away a couple of years ago used to call these happenings ‘God incidences.’ I like that too, as it seems to imply something which is more than just a coincidence.

My sister has been visiting my parents this week from France and we were travelling down to South West London to see another dear friend of the family. I was driving and the joined the M1 just above Luton only to see the traffic begin to build up in front of us, as the temporary restriction signs was bringing our speed steadily lower. In that snap decision between joining the
queue and taking the slip road I barely hesitated before coming off at Junction 9 heading towards St Albans.

It just so happens that we lived on the outskirts of St Albans on the other side of Verulamium Park for fifteen years as a family, until my parents moved to Kent when I was eighteen and I was on my way to college; my sister had long since left for America.

As I circled the city the car was full of happy recollections:

‘I used to walk this way from school if I finished early to meet you, mum, at St Michael’s school,’ recalled my sister.

‘We used to batman down this hill to St Micheal’s church to go bellringing. We were always late. You must remember those long capes we made one year!’ I reminded my sister.

‘Look, the path is still there, the one that went to our house,’ added mum.

‘I thought they sold the boys school playing field for houses years ago. I wonder what took them so long.’

‘We had a much better view with the field there,’ and I wasn’t talking about the boys playing rugby either!

‘Oh, there’s the King Harry. Do you remember that funny vicar who used to pop into cars at the traffic lights?’

‘Where’s the little hall where we went to Brownies and Guides?’

‘It’s hard to believe we walked all this way to Killigrew Junior school. They wouldn’t do it these days would they.’

‘Rod Argent used to buy his bread from the baker’s here at Chiswell Green.’

I know that these reminiscences mean nothing to anyone else, but with my sister living abroad and my elderly parents
living nearby me up in Bedfordshire, the few minutes we had all together in my car passing though the familiar haunts of St Albans in Hertfordshire were very precious.

Serendipity is certainly a special word for me!

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